When we think of marriage-minded online dating, we think of eHarmony. The site was built in 2000 strictly for singles looking for serious relationships, so you won’t have to weed through profiles of incompatible people. In fact, you won’t have to do any weeding at all. After you take eHarmony’s exclusive and in-depth questionnaire, the site will do all of the matching for you. All you have to do is say yes or no!
Looking for dating apps for long-term relationships? Or want something fun and flirty? Prefer paid apps? Or want to start with something free? Our review of 2019's best dating apps with help you find the app (or apps!) best suited to your needs, no matter what style of dating you prefer. 2019 is the year of dating apps - and these are the best of the best.
While their guarantee that you'll find your person (or your potential person, at least) in half a year is comforting, I'm just happy with the fact that Match can reassure you that no, all of the good people in the world are not taken, and there truly are plenty of fish in the sea. Well done, Match. Well done. You'd think it would be old fashioned and lame as it's one of the longest sites on the market, but I'm here to say that it's the complete opposite. I was super impressed by the whole experience.
Zoosk has pre-set lines at the ready, so you don’t have to stress over sending the first message. While you can also swipe through a deck like all the other apps, you also have the option of searching profiles based on filters like height, age, relationship history, and education. They also offer photo verification so you can be sure the person you’re talking to actually matches the profile.
OkCupid has insanely cool advertising, making it known that they're LGBT friendly — and the millennials love that shit. I'd guess that more younger people would be attracted to OkCupid because of this, and would also bet that that's where the most liberal users are. OkCupid also apparently has a way to weed out misogynistic jerks, which is by asking users if the government should defund Planned Parenthood or not. While Match will display whether or not someone is religious, there's not really a way to know their political views without asking them — so if that's something you really care about in a relationship, you might choose OkCupid instead. Oh yeah, and all of OkCupid's features are completely free, which is obviously awesome.
Think twice about giving Zoosk access to your address book – they keep your contacts on file and may later use your information to suggest friends and connections to other members. If they invite your friends, they may out you as being a Zoosk user by extending the invitation on your behalf. (Of course, there's no shame in dating online, but it could be a problem if your partner doesn't know about it!) By signing up to Zoosk, you grant permission for all your user content to be used for purposes including advertising or transmission to a third party.

The League is an "elite dating app" that requires you to apply to get access. Your job title and the college you attended are factors The League considers when you apply, which is why you have to provide your Linkedin account. Big cities tend to have long waiting lists, so you might find yourself twiddling your thumbs as your application goes through the process. (Of course, you can pay to hurry up the review.) The exclusivity can be a draw for some and a turnoff for others. Let me demystify the app for you: I've seen most of the profiles I come across on The League on other dating apps. So at the end of the day, you'll probably see the same faces on Tinder, if you aren't deemed elite enough for The League.


Once you've installed these apps and signed up for the services, get ready for a barrage of notifications and email. Some, like daily match suggestions, are helpful, while others, like alerts that tell you every new "like" you get, can just be annoying. The good thing is you can easily tweak these alerts by drilling down into the settings menus in each of the apps.

If you want to know more about someone, you can always just ask the friend you have in common, which is a human touch that’s absent from most apps. Moreover, people can message you only if you’ve matched, so there are no unsolicited “greetings”. You can see what sort of relationship people are looking for, and while that doesn’t sound that revolutionary, it reflects the fact that Hinge carries more of a dating expectation than a just-hooking-up expectation à la Tinder. Furthermore, because of the friends-of-friends connection, you’re less likely to run across inappropriate photos. That’s a plus in our book.


We couldn’t give you an extensive guide to online dating without mentioning sugar babies. This term is slang – usually for younger women who use online dating services to match with older, wealthier men who provide them with financial support in some way. This has become an increasingly popular way for young people to help ease the burden of student loan debt.
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