Though we hold user reviews of products in high esteem, such reviews of online dating sites are hard to evaluate, as they tend to be highly negative: One bad experience is often enough for reviewers to write off a particular service entirely. We found large collections of user reviews at sites including SiteJabber and Dating Sites Reviews. To evaluate reviews, we focused on membership, ease of use, features, cost and security of each site or app.


The initial questionnaire only takes above five minutes, and bam: You're set up with an account, ready to meet matches. However, there's a ton more stuff you can add to your profile to give potential matches even more info. Adding more is optional, so you can totally be mysterious if you want — but if you're picky or want to avoid future disagreements, I'd suggest filling out some more sections.
Why? I personally like Coffee Meets Bagel because it’s not an endless cycle of swiping through uninterested prospects. It’s very casual [in tone], but catered more to individuals looking for actual dates/relationships rather than just a hookup. In comparison to the other apps/sites, I think there is a better quality of men on CMB. Only issue I have: Their messaging app is extremely subpar, doesn’t load correctly and messages don’t send.

The app is free and works based on your location, so you can use it to find dates while you're traveling. You need a Facebook profile to link to your dating profile, and the apps asks you to outline your intentions and hobbies in its dashboard. That’s also where you select an activity and a time frame and see if any other users are interested in meeting up with you for the date.
eHarmony is an online dating site which has regularly had some of the best success rates for relationships in the world, over many years. Dr Neil Clark Warren, a clinical psychologist, who had practiced for 35-years and counselled couples in marriages, thought there was another way to discover love, instead of leaving it to chance. His belief led to the creation of the eHarmony website and his development of eHarmony's popular matching system. This matching system was extensively tested with married couples, and involves a complicated matching technique. It is so unique, that it has been patented in the US. eHarmony offers compatibility matches based on the 29 patented 'Dimensions of Compatibility'. 5% of marriages have occurred in the US, due to eHarmony's unique system, as per a survey in 2009, and 44,000 weddings of the site members (this equals 120 eHarmony weddings every day). EHarmony saves time by cutting out dating, so you can spend all of your time on the important matches. Keep reading our honest eHarmony review to learn more.
It’s important to be upfront about what you’re looking for online. If you’re interested in something casual, free sites that require less information to sign up could work perfectly. It’s probably not worth paying for a membership if you’re not looking for anything long term and are willing to risk going on a couple of potentially bad dates. If marriage is what you’re after, then you might have better luck on paid sites that pair you with people who have the same priorities.
How often are you put off by being spotted by the man in IT or adding facts like your surname, job or 4 filtered (it's okay, we all do it) photos for everyone to see? With Pickable women reveal themselves to men they're interested in. For the men? They get a fun dashboard to gamify the experience and give them better feedback in future. This could be a game changer.

Did I like using it? Where do I begin? Overall, did I like using Bumble? Yes. The interface is cool, it makes swiping super easy, and you can apply filters such as height, religion, political preferences, and location (in miles) which makes things easier when actually trying to find someone who fits what you're looking for. Once matched, you only get 24 hours to make a move. As someone who tends to ignore notifications from things outside of Instagram, I definitely forgot to do this over 10 times. But I think the time limit is good, because in Dating App World 24 hours is more like 72. You can also send links and messages in app, which is both good and bad. Good because it feels just like texting, but without having to give someone your number. Bad because someone *could* and *probably will* send you a picture of their dick.


Most of Bumble's functionality is free to use. To get started visit their website or install their app. You can then sign up with your phone number or Facebook account, upload additional photos, edit your profile, and set your search filter parameters. Then, it is onto matching. Swipe up and down to see more photos, and left or right to say yes or no. If a mutual match is made, a conversation may be initiated. Tap the chat box icon to view your match queue and current conversations. If you see someone who would be perfect for a friend, long press their photo or open up their profile and tap “Send to a Friend” to play matchmaker.
Dating apps generally try to give themselves a gimmick to differentiate themselves from the competition, but few have gone as far as Quiz Date Live. Essentially a cross between The Bachelorette and HQ Trivia, Quiz Date Live moonlights as a dating show within an app, as suitors compete to win a date with one particular lucky lady, the featured dater.

Think twice about giving Zoosk access to your address book – they keep your contacts on file and may later use your information to suggest friends and connections to other members. If they invite your friends, they may out you as being a Zoosk user by extending the invitation on your behalf. (Of course, there's no shame in dating online, but it could be a problem if your partner doesn't know about it!) By signing up to Zoosk, you grant permission for all your user content to be used for purposes including advertising or transmission to a third party.

Why? I personally like Coffee Meets Bagel because it’s not an endless cycle of swiping through uninterested prospects. It’s very casual [in tone], but catered more to individuals looking for actual dates/relationships rather than just a hookup. In comparison to the other apps/sites, I think there is a better quality of men on CMB. Only issue I have: Their messaging app is extremely subpar, doesn’t load correctly and messages don’t send.


eharmony uses a comprehensive questionnaire with a whopping 29 dimensions to match you with people based on your long-term compatibility. You'll give yourself a rating on prompts like "I'm an honest partner," with sliding scale responses. On paper, asking deep questions like these right off the bat makes total sense when pairing two people together — but they're so basic and annoying. As much as you'd like to lie to feel better about yourself, you know deep down that's not the way to a healthy relationship. Admitting that you're not as mature in a certain area is key to eharmony matching you with someone who complements you. eharmony promises to pay for three months if you're not satisfied after three months, so they're clearly pretty confident that all of those questions work.

Hinge is kind of like Tinder. OK, it’s a lot like Tinder — but with a few key differences that make it better. Interface-wise, it looks like Tinder’s younger sister. But function-wise, it relies more on your Facebook friends to make connections for you. Hinge connects you through friends-of-friends-of-friends and shows you not just the people you have in common, but all the interests you have in common. It does this by having you answer a bunch of questions through a Tinder-like interface. Have you been to Berlin? Swipe right. Don’t play croquet? Swipe left. This makes answering questions far easier and less time-consuming, not to mention more fun. The questions themselves aren’t as asinine as those in some other dating apps, and give you a better sense of someone than 500 characters might.
Bumble has set unprecedented standards for respectful behavior to ensure all users feel safe, including banning shirtless bathroom mirror selfies (seemingly a staple of all dating apps) and implementing photo verification to ensure users are who they claim to be. Bumble also attacked the problem of ghosting head-on by implementing time limits on communication.
For the most part, the online dating experience can be broken down into three parts: signing up, creating a profile, and interacting with other members. Depending on the site or app you’re looking into, the first two parts may take more or less time, but it’s important to note that the more accurately you answer the questionnaires and the more care you put into creating a profile that reflects who you are, the better chances you have of being matched with someone worth your while. When it comes to interacting, it can be as simple as sending someone a casual "wink" or liking their photo, or you can send them a more detailed message if you feel drawn to do so. Each site will have unique features to offer, all of which we’ve reviewed in detail for you.
The Nuts and Bolts: Instead of having just a gallery of images, the app prompts you to choose a theme song to play during your photo slideshow. You can tell a lot about a person by the images they choose, but even more by the one song they have them coincide with! The annoying thing is that the app doesn’t allow you to look at only one geographical location, so even though I live in New York, I still have to sift through prospects in Los Angeles, London, and other cities. The other con is that it costs $8 a month, but I figure that’s like two cups of coffee, so it’s not a big deal to me.
Features for introverts: Instead of swiping, browsing, poking, and messaging your way into someone's inbox only to never hear back, this app will send you a potential match every day at noon. Men receive curated matches based on the algorithm and women will only be presented with potential matches (called Bagels) that have already expressed interest. 
My favorite part was that they allowed you to specify what you want in a partner: You'll choose which of those same personality traits you're looking for in someone else and rate how important they are to you. For instance, I'd prefer someone who doesn't smoke cigarettes, but it's not a deal breaker — Match lets you specify that preference exactly, and if you choose "This is a deal breaker," they won't give you potential matches that had that in their answers. This is a super simple way to make sure you're at least somewhat on the same page as someone and gets the surface-level things out of the way. This means that those awkward conversations don't come up two months into the relationship. Finding someone who has the same values as you is just as important as finding someone with good communication skills and the rest of that mushy stuff.
Tastebuds.fm is a smaller site compared to POF. Nevertheless, it is a great site for lovers of music, concerts and organists. The site has a user base of 200,000 users. It is your go to site when you want to meet people with whom you share the love of music. The site features a music suggestions feature that offers you a great chance to meet concert buddies.
Have you ever crossed paths with a stranger and felt an immediate connection? Have you always regretted not introducing yourself to that cute guy in the elevator or that really funny waitress? Happn is a dating app that gives you a second chance with missed connections. Every time you cross paths with another person who has the app on their phone, you'll be able to view their dating profile. You can also see how many times you've crossed paths with a person and if you don't want to match with them, you can simply remove that profile from your timeline. If you've found someone you'd like to get to know more you can like them with the app's heart button, and if the feeling is mutual, you'll be able to message back and forth.
Just like traditional dating sites, dating apps range from platonic friend finders to hook-up enablers. Depending on what you want to get out of your dating app, we suggest playing the field a little bit. Most apps are free, so it doesn’t hurt to set up a Tinder profile and a Coffee Meets Bagel profile to get a feel for what you like. If you’re already set up on a desktop dating site, see if there’s an app available -- even the paid sites typically offer a free app to go along with the desktop component.
The Tinder app no longer requires you to have a Facebook account, but you do have to be older than 18. Once enabled, you can set up a concise profile that consists of a 500-character bio and up to six images (we suggest always including a photo). You can also link your Tinder account to your Instagram, and include info about your employer and/or school. Discovery settings allow other users to find you if desired and set a few preferences regarding who you see. Then the real fun begins.

eharmony is all about marriage and features a 29-dimension matching system — the registration process there takes longer and goes a bit deeper, but there's a reason eharmony has lead to some 4% of marriages in the US. This isn't to say that Match isn't serious, because it is — it just gives a little more leeway when it comes to people's intentions.


eHarmony is an online dating site which has regularly had some of the best success rates for relationships in the world, over many years. Dr Neil Clark Warren, a clinical psychologist, who had practiced for 35-years and counselled couples in marriages, thought there was another way to discover love, instead of leaving it to chance. His belief led to the creation of the eHarmony website and his development of eHarmony's popular matching system. This matching system was extensively tested with married couples, and involves a complicated matching technique. It is so unique, that it has been patented in the US. eHarmony offers compatibility matches based on the 29 patented 'Dimensions of Compatibility'. 5% of marriages have occurred in the US, due to eHarmony's unique system, as per a survey in 2009, and 44,000 weddings of the site members (this equals 120 eHarmony weddings every day). EHarmony saves time by cutting out dating, so you can spend all of your time on the important matches. Keep reading our honest eHarmony review to learn more.
How it helps introverts: eharmony has a feature called RelyID that helps verify the information provided by other members, like their name, city, and age. You know what that means? No catfishing. Also, your profile is only visible to the people who are a good match for you, so the experience can help to narrow your potentials down to only those who are actually a good fit. 
The website is meant for men who are serious about finding an international woman to fall in love with, marry, and bring back to his home country. Members can search for a potential foreign match by using filters that narrow down women by their age, location/home country, hair color, eye color, ethnicity, and even their education level. Male users can send chat requests or emails to women on the website, who can choose to respond either through the website’s chat function or through an email service.
I heard about this app from a friend who described it as “basically, kind of like meeting someone in real person.” Happn connects you with people that you’ve crossed paths with once or even multiple times. It’s like a digital interpretation of what could happen if you finally talk to the guy that’s always in front of you at the coffee shop. If you both like each other, you can start a conversation. Seems cute, but I personally found this app a little stalker-ish. Someone, theoretically, could see exactly where we’ve crossed paths, and I don’t know if I’m about strangers knowing my exact whereabouts. Also, because I have data on the subway, I was crossing people’s paths underground on the 3 train while they were outside above ground getting a bagel. I deleted it within a week without going on any dates because I got scared. I’ve watched enough Lifetime movies to know how this turns out.
About the App: Available via the App Store and Google Play, Match is a fantastic app for dates and relationships. With a user base of 30 million singles, Match is where you'll have a high chance of success. It's free to download, create a profile, search for and receive matches around the corner and across the world, find missed connections, "like" people, as well as send and receive winks.
Ashley Madison is all about cheating but this does not make it less popular. The site has garnered over 20 million users and the number continues to grow. When joining, you are asked to choose your relationship status; either “attached male seeking female” or “attached female seeking male”. The site repeatedly stresses that it is 100 percent discreet.

When they join these dating websites, they are able to meet international singles, become friends (or maybe even build a romantic interest in them), and when they actually land in whatever new and exciting place they are going to visit. Thanks to global online dating, you can put yourself in the position where you already know someone in that new country, which can be incredibly helpful if you don’t speak the language fluently or are unaware of certain customs that could easily offend a local. Plus when you join a free dating service, you don’t really have to worry about wasting money on the rare occasion that you are unable to meet someone interesting.

Most sites don’t conduct criminal background checks or screenings on members. Members are fully responsible for any losses or damages whether direct or indirect. Members who decide to meet in-person are responsible to take necessary precautions to protect themselves. Several online dating sites provide “Dating Safety Tips” which explain how members can protect themselves from hackers or scammers. If a profile is reported for inappropriate activity or some other reason, companies do have the right to conduct criminal background checks/screenings at any time.


The 1-month membership subscription is very steep—around $60 for a single month. You can save money by being 3-month, 6-month and annual subscriptions (a yearly subscription is around $215, or about only $17 per month!) but if you just want to try out the website to see if you like it, you’ll have to pay a hefty upfront cost. Although the automatic matching is helpful, the option to do some type of manual searching would make the website more accessible.
For those seeking for an exclusively app-based experience, there's also Jdate's JSwipe, a location-based, Facebook-connected dating app that includes popular features like profile swiping. While JSwipe is primarily targeted at relationship-minded Jewish singles in their 20s or 30s, world of mouth has it that grandmothers love swiping through to find a match for their grandkids - so much so that the company refers to themselves as 'Bubbe-approved'!
Hinge started out by showing you Facebook friends of friends, but their algorithm is so smart that it has now surpassed friends of friends as a predictor of compatibility (AKA you won't be matched with someone all wrong for you just because you have a mutual friend). Rather, Hinge helps you get to know the other person more deeply than any new app has attempted, revealing answers to juicy, detailed questions about things like future plans, religion, and vices. Seems like a good recipe for a connection past physical stuff, right? According to Hinge, 75% of their first dates lead to second dates, so it's clearly working.
Online dating's popularity is right in line with how we conduct most of our business these days. We read our news online, watch TV and movies online, order food online -- why wouldn't we meet and flirt and look for relationships online, too? Not to mention: Where else could you go to meet so many singles ready to mingle? Sure, nothing beats meeting someone face-to-face and feeling the sparks fly, but there’s really no guarantee of meeting anyone and getting to know them in most public spaces, especially nowadays. The fact remains that online dating sites are a unique and effective way of connecting with more people who share your intentions than would otherwise be physically possible.

How does it work? Lovestruck helps you target potential partners according to location and it covers many of the major cities across the world. It’s aimed at time-starved professionals, who due to busy work and social lives simply don’t have the time to date. Lovestruck helps put you in touch with people who are near you – be it where you work or live – to save you precious minutes or hours travelling to and from a date. The site also hosts regular events which are a fun, relaxed way to meet people.
OkCupid is willing to work to find you a mate. Throughout the signup process, it gathers enough information on you to make informed decisions before recommending potential dates. It's a good happy medium between eharmony, which makes you answer a litany of questions before signing up, and Zoosk, where you can browse after entering the most barebones of data. Better yet, OkCupid lets you do a lot for free, including messaging other members.
With its selective admissions process, The League is like a private club in the social media dating world. Becuase the app is LinkedIn-based (but don’t worry, it won't match you with a coworker) rather than Facebook or Instagram, it promises to make you one half of a power couple. (As long as the people behind the app approve of you and let you join, that is.)
Why it's awesome: When we're blinded by love, we tend to ignore red flags and can't see when someone is all wrong for us — but friends can see it clear as day and wish we would just take their damn advice. Wingman is the unique take on dating that lets your friends play cupid, essentially making it the dating app version of the "Have you met my friend?" classic bar line. Your friends want to see you get laid (or find love, obviously) as badly as you do, and sometimes, they just know us better than we know ourselves. As Mashable's Cassie Murdoch writes, "...a little bit like handing your friend your Tinder or Bumble account and saying, 'Here, you deal with this.'" And sometimes, fancy algorithms just aren't enough.
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